Lindsay Hayes




Couples Therapy
Individual Therapy

Experienced In:

Improved communication
Polyamorous relationships
Ethical non-monogamy


Westminster, CO + Online

Hello- I’m Lindsay. My priority is helping you reach your goals. Not sure what your goals are? I can help with that, too.

I specialize in ethical nonmonogamy and polyamorous relationships. Whether you are curious about opening your relationship or have already opened your relationship, I can help you communicate in ways that strengthen the bonds between you.

I also work with monogamous couples looking to find their way back to each other. With compassion and empathy, I help people communicate their needs in new and effective ways to create a more trusting relationship.

For individual clients feeling stuck, I am here to help. Maybe you need an empathetic ear. Maybe you need a soft kick in the rear (figuratively speaking, of course) to motivate yourself. I provide a safe place where you can confide your fears and worries so we can work together to find a way forward that works for you.

I use evidence-based therapy models such as Emotionally Focused Therapy, Systemic Family Therapy, and Narrative Therapy. I have a sex-positive approach to therapy and relationship issues. Sex can be an important part of life despite what we’ve sometimes been told (or not told). I’m also kink-positive and LGBTQ-allied.

I hold an MA in Communication and an MA in Couple and Family Therapy. I am currently working towards a PhD in Counseling Studies. In my spare time (and there’s very little of that), I enjoy hiking, dinners out with friends, or spending time at home with my husband of 16 years and adorable pet bunnies.

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